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Late-Discovery Adoptees

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Blogs & Websites

Adopted Me: My Life as a Late-Discovery-Adoptee

Adoptee Revelations

Diana Dunning: Late Discovery Adoptee

Late Discovery Adoptees

Reiss Family Adoption Reunion

A Story With No Beginning: A Late Discovery Adoption Journey

Books

A Family from Barra: An Adoption Story, by Beryl Martin  The author learned in her 50s that she’d been adopted and set out to reclaim her history, finding family in Barra, an island in the Hebrides.

Junkyard Girl: A Memoir of Ancestry, Family Secrets, and Second Chances, by Carlyn Montes De Ova  A memoir about the author’s experience of discovering, at age 57, as a result of a DNA test, that her parents weren’t her parents.

Late Discoveries: An Adoptee’s Quest for Truth, by Susan Bennett  As a result of taking a DNA test, the author learned at 43 years old that she’d been adopted and embarked on a search that led to the discovery of her family and her roots.

Puzzles, Pieces and Choices: A Memoir of My Struggle for Understanding and Closure, by R.J. Redmond  The author was devastated to learn at age 30 that he’d been adopted and set out on a quest to find answers to the mysteries of his personal history.

Someone’s Daughter, by Aurette Bowes  The author’s account of the impact of learning as an adult that she’d been adopted as a baby, her search for her birth family, and her embrace of dual identities

Surviving Secrets: A Journey of Resilience and Courage, by Margaret Watson  Learning she was adopted at age 40 spurred an identity and life crisis for the author, who “embarked on a physical and spiritual journey to find her birth family and discover her true self.”

Facebook and Other Groups

Adoptees, NPEs, Donor Conceived & Other Identity Seekers

Coalition for Genetic Truth (CGT)

Forum for Late-Discovery Adoptees

Late Discoveries, An Adoptee’s Quest for Truth

Late Discovery Adoptees & Family

MPE Cross Cultural Connections

Podcasts

Adoptees On, Season 2, Episode 5  A late-discovery adoptee was the last to learn, at age 33, what everyone else in his family already knew. 

Adoptees On, Season 3, Episode 1  An episode about a man who, having relinquished a child when he was 19, discovered at age 35 that he’d been adopted.

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Recommended Reading

The Lost Family: How DNA is Upending Who We Are, by Libby Copeland. Check our News & Reviews section for a review of this excellent book about the impact on the culture of direct-to-consumer DNA testing.

What Happens When Parents Wait to Tell a Child He’s Adopted

“A new study suggests that learning about one’s adoption after a certain age could lead to lower life satisfaction in the future.”

Janine Vance Searches for the Truth About Korean Adoptees

“Imagine for a minute that you don’t know who your mother is. Now imagine that you are that mother, and you don’t know what became of your daughter.”

Who’s Your Daddy? The Twisty History of Paternity Testing

“Salon talks to author Nara B. Milanich about why in the politics of paternity and science, context is everything.”

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“This is what happens inside children when they are forcibly separated from their parents.”

Truth: A Love Story

“A scientist discovers his own family’s secret.”

Dear Therapist: The Child My Daughter Put Up for Adoption is Now Rejecting Her

“She thought that her daughter would want to meet her one day. Twenty-five years later, that’s not true.”

I’m Adopted and Pro-Choice. Stop Using My Story for the Anti-Abortion Agenda. Stephanie Drenka’s essay for the Huffington Post looks at the way adoptees have made unwilling participants in conversations about abortion.

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